One year ago, on Memorial Day 2006 (May 29th),we got to meet the precious girl that was born into our hearts months before she was placed into our arms.
Nobody could have ever prepared us for this trip. We flew thousands of miles with a large suitcase that was not for us. It was for our daughter we were about to meet. It was filled with little dresses, onesies, socks, shoes, hair supplies, a swim suit, bibs and toys. Some of these were Bryan's. Some were new. Some were from her grandparents, some from friends and other family members. We did not know what we would use or what would even fit her.
I thought about this time last year for along time last night while I was trying to fall asleep. My racing mind kept bring me back to last year and the passion George and I had for the adoption. In a sick twisted way,I miss it. There were so many highs and lows, but the highs were highs that not many people can identify with. They were really high moments. I feel like we were so lucky to have experienced all the emotions that we did. Adopting Maya was not only the right decision, but I feel like we were truly meant to do it. Without her, our family would not be complete. Bryan has already formed the perfect bond with his little sister. As busy I am multitasking everything I do lately, I do love my home life. These kids were meant to be ours!!!!!
We were so incredibly lucky to had been connected with Holly prior. She asked if she could take pictures as we met our daughter. What she did will never be forgotten. Because of her, friends and family thousands of miles away saw pictures of us meeting Maya Grace only hours later!
This pic still brings tears to my eyes
This is framed in our house. We just love it.
Meet the ladies: Holly and Gia, Kerry and Maya
This was when our facilitator, Claudia, was interpreting for Debbie. She was letting us know about Maya's daily routine...what she likes, does not like, etc. I had to post this just to say Thank God that I had taken care of a child before! I was so amazed by my little girl that she took most of my attention away from what we were talking about!
When we received Maya she was in heavy clothing which is common in Guatemala. She had sweated through her outfit awful. We headed up to the room for her first bath by Mommy and Daddy. This was her while we undressed her.
We met Candy and sweet Kya Blue
...and it appears that you are happy to be home!!!
Maya Grace, we love you so much. We never thought any feeling could compare to the birth of our son until the day you were put into our arms. We are the luckiest parents in the whole world to have been blessed with you and your train loving brother!
We love you,
Mommy and Daddy
9 comments:
Bawling. When I looked at that picture of you all the day you gave her back, it was as I had a flashback to the day we gave Cameron back. Good Lord, that's AWFUL. I'm glad you had a great Memorial day, and I LOVE the current "belly" pics!
Your post was a flashback for me of when we came to meet our sweet Mikayla Faith...and you were there...on visit trip#2. The day we had to give her back, that morning at La Vista, I couldn't even eat I was crying so hard and she was sleeping so beautifully and you came over to me and hugged me. I don't even think you said anything...you didn't have to. You knew how I felt and I have to tell you that to this day, that moment that you gave me that hug, meant the world to me. It was a hug that only another mother understanding the pain of giving back their child could give. So thank you for that moment way back when...when my world felt so bleak.
Maya is amazing. She is the picture of health anf perfection and it is clear how loved and adored she is. I am glad you had a wonderful Memorial Day. It feels so wonderful to finally be able to celebrate holidays as a "complete family." This process is one that I will never forget...nor will I forget the wondeful people, like you, that I met along the way.
wow --- what awesome memories this brings up for all of adoptive parents ... thanks for sharing this !! PS Love all the pics !!
Oh my, I love this post. Back then it seemed like it would be FOREVER until we had our baby girls home and now look. It would be nice to stop time and keep them small for a while longer.
She is a total poser in the church picture:)
Maya is adorable. I love her beautiful smiles.
Merrill
Oh my gosh you and steph I can't believe its been a year...WOW...I am fixing to post that same picture of Maya and Kya on my BLOG...and guess what Kya has that ROUND tummy in her swim suit this year too... I am so glad we all went through this together...I REALLY miss those HIGHS too. Hugs Candy and Kya Blu
That is a beautiful post. My computer is full of tears.
Beautiful post:)
Such feelings and emotions are shining through your words. I am pleased to see the happiness on all your faces. You all deserve happiness and you truly received it when you had your son, Bryan, and now your daughter, Maya. You have the perfect American family. Best wishes and keep on smilin.
Cuz Jenn
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